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acrobatics active activity adult anatomy antics appendage ardour arousal attentions bond bout canoodle cavort companion companionship dashing demonstrative physically
demonstrative enjoy enthusiastic escort explore fun fun-loving gallant games hedonism high jinks highlife hot
date imaginative indulge inexhaustible initiative intimate item liaison lithe loins lower regions lubricious marathon massage ministrations nether regions orientation partying party-loving perform play rampant red-blooded respond response romantic saucy sensual smouldering spontaneity stamina stimulation stunning technique touch toys urge vigor vigorous well-endowed wild
"There's no question at times in my life, partially driven by how passionately I felt about this country, that I worked too hard and things happened in my life that were not appropriate." Newt Gingrich in an interview, 2011 = I had an affair with a colleague 23 years younger than me.
Bohemian = having two wives at one time, mistresses, lovers, boyfriends etc
female companionship = sex
louche, womaniser = exploiter, molester
meaningful relationship = no ring, no legal protection
midlife crisis = I thought I could have a wife, kids and a girlfriend – I was wrong.
ultimatum = Marry me or I’ll leave you.
abandoned (behaviour)
adventurous perverted
aggressive the woman takes any kind of lead
a night in (as opposed to a night out)
an early night
an evening in
anything ("If anything happens...")
approachable Make it clear that you’re available by dropping hints
that you don’t have a husband or boyfriend. Smile and make eye contact
with people across the room.
assignation shag
athletic weird, outré (very 70s)
attentive see generous
be yourself "Wait for the right person to come along instead of having a succession of one-night stands" according to Professor Tanya Byron in The Times, 27 February 2010
blowsy braless
bobbing essential word when describing sex in the open air
body bits we can’t talk about (eg “changes in your body during
your period,” “designed to fit the body” “He’s not afraid of women’s
bodies.” “She’s at ease with her body.”)
body boobs
Cementing a relationship
cement our relationship have sex
charms boobs
cheat have an affair
colourful (career, lifestyle, private life)
colourful past liaisons with lapdancers, addiction to phone sex
lines, three families ignorant of each other’s existence, addiction to
internet porn etc etc etc
Come here! in books and films, equivalent of the old row of asterisks
comfortable/familiar with your body
committed relationship exclusive, and you plan a joint future (Has its own 12-step programme.)
complex “Carla’s love life before Sarkozy was complex - seven years ago she left French writer Jean Paul Enthoven for his married son Raphael.”
complicated lovelife one you have to lie about, one that involves three or more people
considerate – see generous
Courtship rituals
courtship rituals remain more traditional in Italy the woman does not make the first move, they actually have some courtship rituals
dating succession of one-night stands
demanding If a man is too demanding, he wants sex too often.
If a woman is too demanding, she wants to be taken out, given flowers,
listened to, supported, treated like a lady, and… – see considerate,
generous, attentive etc demands, she made too many – see commitment
department (No worries in that department!)
direct take the most direct route (not “say exactly what you mean”)
drive a man wild give him an erection
eat men alive be predatory, bossy, controlling or just take the lead - see demanding
embonpoint boobs
emotional fulfilment = sexual fulfilment
emotional life = sex life
emotional needs sexual needs
encounter shag
energetic (he was an energetic ladies’ man)
entanglement affair
Experimentation
experiment, experimentation (very fashionable in the 70s, but probably didn’t involve test tubes and Bunsen burners)
favourite lover of monarch, sheikh etc
femininity sexiness
figure boobs
fling one-night stand
fraternise (with enemy soldiers)
freewheeling (she's had a freewheeling life, ie she's slept with a lot of people)
friend (as in “friends initially”) no sex
full frontal nudity with pubic hair
fumble sex between unattractive orworking class people; sexual encounter you disapprove of generous When a kiss-and-tell mistress describes her lover as
“generous” we know this is code for his attention to foreplay. If he
“knew exactly what he wanted”, we assume the opposite. When the word
“adventurous” is used, we can surmise that furry handcuffs came into
play. Carol Midgley Times Feb 15 10 (ditto gentle, considerate,
attentive)
gentle – see generous
genuine in small ads, means “not a prostitute”, “not looking for one-night stand”, “not looking for sugar daddy”
get to know you better have sex
grapple suggests clumsy, unexpected and possibly unwelcome hug of man by woman
gymnastics woman on top
have your (wicked) way
healthy versus unhealthy sexuality = what society wants/what society doesn’t want
hedonist, womaniser = Dominique Strauss Kahn
He was a very private person (in obituary) gay
hips bum human (he was only human)
I’ve met someone (special) I’ve slept with someone
independent
modern women are independent, ie they don’t expect you to support them,
ie part with any cash
indulge, pamper, spoil I’ll pay
inhibitions mysterious things that stop you having sex (or enjoying it). They have to be removed, like a dodgy appendix.
intense relationship rows, shouting, tears, stalking
intimacy (Intimacy Concerns for Breast Cancer Survivors) sex
intimate massage
item a couple goes public
jouncing – see bobbing
just wants to be friends won’t have sex
liaisons = affairs
lissom sexy
lonely (businessmen) frustrated
look after you you can live off me lost (Diary of a Lost Girl)
Make good/bad decisions: Chris Bryant on Dorries’s abstinence bill: "The single most important thing we can do for any young person is give them the self-confidence to be able to make good decisions for themselves," May 5, 2011. Make good decisions = not sleep around?
make love The woman has an orgasm. Or possibly some weird ceremony involving scented candles, rose petals and massage oil.
making the most of being single having lots of one-night stands
messy (The breakup was very messy, as he asked me for
time to think and I subsequently discovered he was seeing someone else.
psychcentral.com) – see complicated
move on See "settle down".
needs (sensitive to your needs, women have needs) – see generous etc
neglected (wife)
nothing ("Nothing happened.")
nubile – see lissom
official a couple goes public
one thing led to another we had sex
over-familiar mild groping
over-friendly mild groping
overly romantic (Burt Lancaster became overly romantic in From Here to Eternity)
overt overtly sexual
over-zealous attentions party what men do with prostitutes
pay attention to (husband)
peccadilloes = a bit like shenanigans
physical (get physical, he wanted our relationship to become physical) sexual
popular (girl)
proportions boobs
radiant If you’re radiant, you’re either the Queen or pregnant. reinvigorate (your marriage)
relationships develop, go forward, move forward, move on to the next stage or a new level, go somewhere have sex, or perhaps get married
relax all you have to do, apparently
romance put it back in your marriage (have sex more often)
romp = novel with sex scenes
see what prostitutes do to clients
settle for what you can get
settle down partner up, shack up, get married, have kids (or as they say these days, "move on")
sex addiction having sex more often than society thinks you ought to/cheating on your partner
sex education teaching teenage girls how not to get pregnant
sincere – see genuine
solicit solicit sex
someone special someone I am sleeping with/hope to sleep with
sparkle (back in your marriage)
spoil give lavish presents, pay gas bill etc stirring erection
stirring in the undergrowth erection
stray have an affair sultry (only applied to females)
take a relationship to a new level have sex
take it further have sex
take things to the next stage have sex teach children about relationships = tell them not to have sex (or wait till it’s legal)
troubled incestuous “Eric Gill’s troubled relationships with his wife and daughters” Guardian Jan 9 10
tryst shag
unconventional their marriage was unconventional = they both had affairs
use what men do to prostitutes
Good vibrations
vibrant (Norwegian a vibrant guest on the party scene Times subhed Mar 18 08 re death of Norwegian student) part-time prostitute
virile (very 60s)
visit what men do to prostitutes
women who like sex women who like one-night stands (they used to be called nymphomaniacs, or over-sexed)
want to have fun just want sex
We have our own friends We have an open marriage
We’re both adults, aren’t we? hookup, FWB
Surely we can discuss this like adults? women who live their own lives women who sleep around
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