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Toffs on parade: that's Mayor Boris in the blonde wig
 
English society is class-ridden. We're fond of saying it's "still" class-ridden, as if we're quite confident that class is about to go away. We feel a bit guilty about it, which is why we refer to it covertly.
 
our absurdly risk-obsessed society = the fire brigade and ambulance turned up and common firemen and paramedics started telling US what to do!!! see bureaucracy, petty bureaucrats, nanny state etc

In Agatha Christie, if characters refer to people as “the man Archer” or “the girl Amy”, it means those people are working class. Same goes for “a woman called Jane Doe”.

society =
working class people, immigrants (How can we create a cohesive society? Do we want a society in which…?)

we =
Who are we? We're not part of "society" or "the community". We are not tourists. We are not "hardworking families". We are the people who make decisions for "them". Whoever we are, we certainly have a massive sense of entitlement.

popular culture:
working class culture

A “civilised” (ie posh) festival, Rewind has 1980s pop, “glamping”, and champagne bars. Harry Byford in The Week May 2011

all the advantages    
private school

arriviste    Someone who has "arrived" in "good society" from elsewhere

background     class origins

bohemian, liberal     knows people who aren’t in the top 400, or who don’t have three houses and three holidays a year

classy     posh (but posh people would never say it)

choice    getting your children into the best school (and educationalists = commie pinkos?) Choice is considered a dirty word by many educationalists but  parents – weirdly enough – are actually quite keen to push their children into better schools. This site helps them beat the system. Daily Telegraph Aug 10

coiffure    
Mrs Salmond is carefully coiffured. Times May 14 07 (ie lower middle class)

coiffure     three well-manicured, coiffeured ladies [in Sedgefield] Guardian June 27, 2007 (and surely it should be coiffured)

community, as in the local community, community picnic, community choir        working-class  or black people living in an area who need to be organised and have things laid on for them by patronising middle class people. The middle classess aren’t “the community” because they can afford to live where they like and are always moving on.

community,  involving the      “We” must involve the “community” in what “we” are doing. “We” are not part of the community. (It’s like thinking human beings aren’t part of nature.)

community: the local community (people who live locally must be working class because the Bodens can afford to pick and choose where they live)

cut-glass accents     posh voice (New Statesman 2004. Same article calls the voice “absurdly affected”. It can only be affected if someone’s learned it in later life. New Statesman readers used to affect a working-class accent.)

dignified    black or working class (people we wouldn’t expect to be dignified)  "Dignity" award for Walker family The family of murdered teenager Anthony Walker have been honoured for their "calm dignity in the face of tragedy".  His mother, Gee Walker, accepted the first ever Profile In Courage Award from the National Black Crown Prosecution Association (NBCPA). bbc.co.uk Oct. 13 2006 Alan Johnson and his family are praised for their “dignity” all over the press July 07. Ie the family hid their feelings and didn’t show emotion – or only in a very controlled way. Middle class people don’t like anyone to show emotion in public – maybe because that’s what chavs do. Working class people in the news are praised by the broadsheets for “dignity” if they don’t show emotion; but they'll be pilloried by the tabloids. If Lindy Chamberlain/Kate McCann/Joanne Lees doesn’t show emotion, she did it. Dignity also means not selling your story to the media. “The Value of Dignity: A trial by media will not help to find the truth about Madeleine McCann” Times Sept 20 07

discerning    posh

down to earth    has the common touch (if said of someone posh)

eclectic bunch    contains common people

folk    working class people

gritty  (gritty reality, urban grit)    working class, no Starbucks, not trendy “gritty publishers New English Library” G December 5, 2007

guilty pleasure    doing something that lets the side down, like reading Heat or shopping at Costcutter

hard-working families  Middle England (Gordon Brown)

heavy   common décor (heavy window treatments). Probably combined with “garish colour schemes”, “fussy” arrangements and “busy” patterns. (American)

hysteria   working class people protesting, story printed in tabloid. See MOB LINK GOES HERE.

leafy middle class (suburb, street) “...enjoyed a dappled upbringing in Hampstead” Guardian 3.20.02 (presumably the light was dappled after filtering through all those leaves) “Dr Hunter offered the example of a school in a ‘better, leafy area’ that took three children in care…” G October 16, 2003 "Cannabis plantation found in leafy suburb: Cannabis plants have been found growing at the site of a planned upmarket housing development in a wealthy Aberdeen suburb. Police have been called in after the plants were found growing in greenbelt woodland near the Milltimber area." Sat 31 Jul 2004 The Scotsman "Friendly female wanted for cosy houseshare in leafy suburb" "Desirable leafy suburb of Cleethorpes a short walk from the sea front." “Just because a school is in a so-called leafy suburb, that does not mean the parents are wealthy. Many will have stretched themselves to the limit to buy houses in the catchment areas of these schools." Guardian
 
like-minded    middle class

mainstream society    aspirant, law-abiding, tax-paying, willing to play the game, the bit some people are “excluded” from

mass audience = common people

Middle England   Martin Jacques has complained that Middle England is a "metaphor for respectability, the nuclear family, conservatism, whiteness, middle age and the status quo" New Statesman 25 Oct 07 (that’s a euphemism, Martin, not a metaphor)

mob    a lot of working class people (see MOB ADD LINK HERE)

potential    common, or possibly black “The middle classes are leaving the state [educational] sector in droves … partly because they think their children will be mixing with pupils who will not help their child reach full potential." Nick Clegg, reported in the Evening Standard, Nov 23 07 

ordinary folk    working class people (and you’d never say “middle-class folk”)

ordinary people   common people, less-than-rich people

overstuffed furniture    code for lower class  “The Farooqs live in a detached house obscured from a busy road by six fir trees and overgrown foliage, directly opposite the main entrance to Warwick university. "Tarl-Lea" reads the name plate fixed between the green garage door and the frosted glass of the porch through which can be glimpsed the twee furnishings of a comfortable family home: a tasselled lamp, an over-stuffed sofa and a slightly garish carpet.” July 7, 2000 The Guardian 

people from all walks of life   including working class people, or maybe just working class people

prominent    his family was socially prominent, though his performance was outstanding and the question was salient

showy   vulgar

simple    working class "He came from a simple family." the BBC on James Callaghan

smothered in heavy/complicated sauces    common food (like over-stuffed furniture) The middle classes are  anti-sauce, it makes food too like babyfood, ie easy to eat and tasty.

society    middleclass, law-abiding society (and probably white). "We" are unquestionably a part of it.

stuffy   middle class in the wrong way In classical music, means performers don’t chat to the audience, or look happy, or do facial expressions while they play. (Some do – but you wish they wouldn’t.)

stylish   posh (but posh people would never say it)

trendy    middle class

unspoilt (area of France)   free of the wrong kind of Brits

unsuitable (boyfriend)   common

urban   working class (or black)

very English (eg Elgar)   middle class. There’s a sneer in calling something “very English”. Implies middle-aged, lives in shires, parochial, quaint, twee, old-fashioned, fusty, cosy. It's the opposite of diverse and vibrant – qualities valued by a different set of middle class people. And why sneer at something for being very English when the English are struggling to find a sense of identity? Perhaps Elgar (Grainger, Butterworth etc.) are tarnished by being used for nationalist rallying. But were they? It’s as grating as calling someone an English Rose LINK HERE.

we, us     middle-class people